I have been doing some thinking lately about relationships.... it seems I just keep looking for love in all the wrong places and finding what looks amazing at first but it simply a temporary facade that seems to fade... One thing I realize is that I have high standards for the woman that I would like to spend the rest of my life with ... however If I am to have these expectations for her than I need to hold myself both physically and mentally to an equally elevated standard. In an effort to not waste my time with girls that I would not marry I decided to make a list of things I would love for my wife to have......
- Committed To Christ/ Spiritual
- Outgoing
- Athletic
- Socially aware
- Comfortable without make up
- Ambitious/ goal oriented hard worker
- Excellent leadership skills
- Honest ( even if it hurts)
- Does not laugh at everything
- Makes me laugh a little (real laugh)
- Shepherd Not a sheep
- enough experience to not be ignorant
- Argues sometimes/does not always let me when
- Can take a joke/and joke back
- knows her insecurities and is OK with them
- Somewhat of an understanding of football/basketball
- Motivating
- Bonnie & Clyde
- Trustworthy
- Corrects me when appropriate and not in front of large crowds or opposing parties
- social but not a flirt
- Hard exterior and soft interior for only limited few myself and family
- No self loathing
- Gets in the car and makes a choice of where to go(without saying you choose what are you in the mood for)
- Can Dance
- Spontaneous
- Loves Kids/ Dogs
- Can cook
- Is OK with silence( and doesn't force conversation)
- night walks are better than movie and dinner
Physically I would say......
- Athletic Build
- I can pick her up without struggling
- Nice smile
- Dark Hair
- Nice lips
- Dresses sexy conservative
- T shirt in sweats is OK with her
- Just as hot with pony tail than with hair down
- affectionate
- PDA OK but private preferred
- loves the rain over the heat
- Whenever she walks into the room I want to think to my self damn is that really my wife right there I am the luckiest man in the world
We can both answer the question Am I the best you can do? with of course baby!
